Bitch Got Out Of Line

E6: Pink Hair & Choosing to Not Be Men's Property

In this episode the conversation continues as Raven & Amanda discuss how difficult relationships affect women's physical health, and the weight changes often associated with marriage and love/limerence. 
00:00:00 Content warning 00:00:10 Intro clip00:01:09 Weight gain/weight loss and the correlation between health and happiness. 00:6:30 Partner rejection, and the transactional nature of how men often participate in relationships.00:8:25 Codependency, and learning how to give and receive in a healthy way.00:9:35 Marriage: The long con with negative ROI. 00:11:45 Women as property: Why do our fathers need to "give us away"? 00:15:00 The magical power of the beauty of women. The exhaustion of pleasing men with our appearance. 00:16:28 An awkward dolphin tangent. 00:20:45 Raven calls out middle aged white men. 00:21:40 What we do with our hair... is none of your business. 00:24:21  More on pink hair (from intro) The religious Republican right whining about pink hair/how to deter creeps from hitting on you. 

E5: The Terrifying, Demonic Sexually Empowered Woman

In this episode, the conversation continues, as Raven and Amanda discuss the toxic culture we live in, women as agents of the patriarch, and how religious cultural expectations are leading to violence toward women. 
00:00 Intro clip + explicit content warning. 
00:44 Being controlled with the threat of losing your children and a message from Raven to those who resort to this type of control. 02:00 Codependents and addicts, "I believed I could change anyone."04:00 Can we please talk about alcohol and our alcoholic society?  07:40 Losing friends when you heal and the challenge of setting new boundaries with old friends. 09:30 Who's bringing home the bacon? 12:25 Are you the narcissist's litmus test? Empowered women triggering men.14:30 Women in entertainment, Women of Hip Hop Documentary16:00 They stay closeted, we get beaten. The systems of oppression that lead to women being impoverished. 24:00 PTA moms and playground politics.26:30 The gaslighting of Christian values. Who really benefits, and why are we so afraid of women who enjoy their bodies? 37:00 The big D flow state.41:00 The conditions that lead to choosing a second violent partner. 
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E4 The Angry Daddy Religions

In this episode Raven & Amanda continue discussing the wildly unrealistic expectations women are held to, the emotional load misalignment in relationships, and the origins of our codependency.
00: Intro clip1:00 All he needs is a beer, a sandwich and a piece of ass, so DO NOT feed him.  4:20 Cheating and intimidation: they can't please the woman they have so they go find others to disappoint. 7:30 Training the dog (me). How men can lead in a relationship. 9:30 Women supporting women and the culturally shared experience of carrying the emotional load of the family. 10:20 The angry daddy religions and their unrealistic expectations of women. 12:00 Why aren't you eating? The origins of our eating disorders and the value in our physical appearance.16:30 Bitch gets out of line, at work. (funny)19:10 Making ourselves smaller. 21:00 Witches, demons, and femicide. 28:00 Marriage changed us, but not the way we expected. 29:00 How codependency is embedded in our religions, culture, and belief systems. 
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E3 Unromanticizing Men & Marriage

In this episode Raven & Amanda discuss early marriage, and what it was like waking up inside of the biggest tale ever told. 
00:45 Waking up to the oppression of the institution of marriage, we're done putting up with your sh*t.2:05 Unromanticizing men. Film "This Changes Everything"5:25 Raven discusses big D energy7:45 Two sexless marriages15:45 They don't know what they have until it's gone.19:45 The foul temptresses failing at marriage27:15 Video games & relationships40:45 Where's my pizza (piece of...)?
Media mentioned in this episode:Bunnie & Jelly Roll, podcastLemonade, Beyonce, albumThis Changes Everything, film
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Correction: Tom Cruise is 5' 9" not 5' 7" :) 
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E2 Codependence, Limerence & Smart Cookies

In this episode, Amanda and Raven continue discussing modern dating, domestic violence and the state of relationships in 2024.
:00 Disclaimer    :09 Preview clip  1:02 Where are the good guys? Dating in 2024.3:25 Learning about limerence. 5:50 The art of pursuit. 11:55 The journey to liking myself. 15:15 Gray hairs, distinguished men, and smart cookies. 22:50 The danger of getting out of an abusive relationship.26:50 The abuse and how it escalates over time.33:50 The history of the hysterectomy. 35:50 Needing vs. wanting men.
 
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Episode 1, May The Bridges We Burn Light Our Way

Welcome to the premiere episode of Bitch Got Out of Line, hosts Amanda Bobbitt and Raven Lunatic share how Bitch Got Out Of Line was born, and some of their personal experiences with love, life, men and relationships. 
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Shownotes: 
:00 Content Warning:35 May the bridges we burn light our way.3:10 Living outside the lines & the inspiration for "Bitch Got Out Of Line" 9:00 Relationship expectations, emotional labor, and the dynamics of domestic violence.  22:00 Is *orn making men better in bed? 34:00 Raven describes big-d energy.